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Venus Week Giveaway Contest!

Last week I attended a NYC blogger event called “A Woman’s Infinite Confidence.” It was held at Townhouse Spa in New York (on the same block as Physique 57!) and sponsored by MS&L Worldwide.

This is what the event invitation said:

We are inviting a handful of the leading women’s health, wellness and lifestyle bloggers to join us for drinks, hors d’oeuvres and complimentary spa treatments and to learn more about what OB/GYN and women’s health expert Dr. Rebecca Booth calls the Venus Week.

Each month there is a week when you feel more confident, more beautiful and even more in the mood sexually. You feel skinny, you don’t feel as hungry, your hair and skin look good, you look good and your man looks extra good to you. Venus Week, named after the goddess of love, fertility and nature, is what Dr. Booth calls this magical grouping of days.

Dr. Booth will be on hand to answer questions about the Venus Week and how Always Infinity can help women take control throughout the month.

 So obviously I was curious! I arrived at the event and was given a name tag with my name and my blog’s name. I felt a little silly since Dori’s Shiny Blog sounds so silly! Background on my blog name: My brother is a software development engineer at Microsoft and loves the language of the computers. He had his own domain (jemts.com) and one day decided to set up blogs for me, Mallory and Santana!  (Note — check out Santana’s new summer dress and baby pic!)

He told me he was creating a blog for me and asked me what I would like the color scheme to be. My only request was that my blog “resembles the hue of Blankey.” Blankey is my brother’s baby blanket, who is primarily a nice cloud blue. I don’t care much about blue, but I just really love Blankey.

So Matt set up the closest WordPress template he could find. It was not the same color as Blankey. He also named the blog Dori’s Shiny Blog because of a hilarious character, Cat, on our favorite TV show, Red Dwarf. Cat looks and talks like a person, but he was descended from cats. After 3 million years of evolution aboard a space ship, Cat is the result.

Cat - Red Dwarf

You see, Cat, being a cat, loved anything and everything shiny, be it a silver pack of cigarettes or a yo yo. He is also the voice behing my blog’s previous tagline, “You can’t have my shiny thing. I found it, it’s my shiny thing.”

While I have since changed the look of my blog and the tagline, the name was already in place. It was a little too known to change and I decided to just keep it. I do love it, but I can’t help but feel silly when I have to say the name of it!

So anyway, back to the event…

I pick up my name tag and am escorted into a room with incredible displays of food. I was told to help myself, and help myself I did. I got mini brownies, cheese, giant strawberries and sushi. I also had 2 classes of champagne! I met some bloggers  from very established sites which was really cool, like Vera from I’m Not Obsessed. We talked and ate until the presentation began.

Food

Dr. Rebecca Booth, an OB/GYN and women’s health expert, spoke to us about Venus Week.

From her website, a description of Venus Week:

Most women notice that monthly, as if by magic, they have a group of days in which they look better, feel better, and respond better to the world around them. Their hair is glossier, their skin glows, and the men in their lives (or at the local Starbucks counter) suddenly seem very appealing. The men respond with equal enthusiasm and interest. They seem to know that these women are appealing, often very attractive, and receptive to men’s attention. This phenomenon is not an accident or a fluke. It is very real and occurs regularly, according to a woman’s hormonal cycle, specifically during the week that precedes ovulation. This cache of days, which happens around the same time each month, is what I have come to call the Venus Week.

This is a chart of women’s hormonal cycles that we go through each month, with Venus week clearly marked as the time where estrogen and testosterone are the highest:

Venus Week

That is the time, immediately preceeding ovulation, where women feel their best. They have more energy, they are more communicative, their waist feels smaller and their clothes fit better. And they feel more inclined toward romance. This is nature’s way of leading women to relationship building.

Dr. Booth wants to teach women to feel this way ALL the time. And she discusses how, with Venus Maximus. It involves exercise and eating in a way that will enhance the hormones that create Venus Week. Dr. Booth recommends avoiding white sugar and white carbs. These can cause excess insulin, which interferes with ovulation. She emphasizes eating more plant proteins that are derived from the reproductive parts of the plant, such as soybeans, chickpeas (HUMMUS!) and nuts. Great news — dark chocolate, cinnamon and red wine are also good for the Venus!

There are also supplements you can take, such as Omega 3, multivitamins and calcium. Dr. Booth advised us that stress leads to increased cortisol, which is not good for feeling our best. The good news is that improving your core strength (HELLO Physique57 and Exhale Core Fusion) actually lowers cortisol, and is therefore a “Venus enhancer.” This was all fascinating information that really just reiterates what we already know — if you want to feel and look your best, eat healthy and exercise. But Dr. Booth presented it in a way that simply MADE SENSE. She had science behind everything she spoke about — and Venus Week is a proven phenomenon. Who wouldn’t want to extend that to Venus Every Month!

I did get the chance to speak with Dr. Booth one on one. I told her all about my GI conditions and asked her advice on what to do if I can’t eat many of the plant proteins. She was so nice and helpful and willing to talk for as long as I needed! Oh and did I mention she is beautiful?!

Dr. Booth 2

She was she told me that the birth control pill actually mutes Venus Week — but the good news is it also mutes the EXTREMELY low point (see chart above) that happens right before the period. But that is good information for women to know who might be trying to figure out their Venus Week and can’t pinpoint it.

Some more info on Dr. Booth:

Dr. Booth is a board-certified obstetrician and gynecologist, and has been practicing medicine for over twenty years. Named one of Louisville’s top OB/GYNs, she is a senior partner in one of the largest OB/GYN practices in the region, serving more than 70,000 women. She serves her community of women by speaking to organizations about female health issues and hormonal challenges, participating in radio and television segments on women’s health, and through contributing to women’s publications.

Here are the Top 10 Venus Interrupters:

  1. Too much sugar and/or starch in your diet
  2. Lack of exercise
  3. Lack of sleep or irregular sleep patterns
  4. Stress and difficulty coping with it
  5. Too much exercise/too little body fat
  6. Thyroid or pituitary gland malfunction
  7. Some medications
  8. Chronic illness
  9. Surgical loss of the ovaries
  10. Early menopause

Dr. Booth wrote a book all about Venus Week, which I can’t wait to read! I’m sure I will have more to say on the topic after reading this book. A big thank you to Dr. Booth for the wonderful presentation!

Spaghetti Cat

The next speaker was Anne from Procter & Gamble. Anne works on Always Infinity pads. At first, I was skeptical. Almost every woman I know is a  tampon user and has been forever. But then Anne told us a very interesting statistic: 84% of women are pad users. Only 10% of women are solely tampon users. I had no idea!

Anne did a demonstration about the absorbency of the Infinity pads using coffee. The liquid absorbed so completely that it looked like there was hardly any there — but when she turned it over, you can see that all the fluid was held between a second layer, away from the body. Brilliant!

The pic below looks gross but it is just coffee!

Always Infinity  Always Infinity

The pads are also designed for optimum comfort and flexibility. They have both dots AND slits to absorb the liquid for when your body moves in different ways, so you can really wear them anywhere. I haven’t tried myself yet, but I definitely plan to.

After the presentations, it was time for SPA TREATMENTS! We got to choose before the event between a manicure, pedicure, chair massage or waxing. I chose the massage. I always choose the massage. And it was one of the best massages of my life. The masseuse, Sherry, was STRONG and good. She stretched my arms and really did an amazing job — that 10 minutes was better than my 60 minute hot stone massage a few weeks ago!

Manicures

Before leaving the event we received goodie bags! We all got a really nice reusable tote from Envirosax. Mine is yellow and white. You can see it a little on my arm in the pic of me here, along with Missy and Amie. Missy’s got the red tote!

Dori, Missy, Amie

Inside the tote was lots of items all with a tag describing the Venus Week benefits of each! Included in the bag were the following:

Always Infinity pads
Dr. Booth’s book The Venus Week
Another book, The No Sugar Cookbook
Total Body Exercise Bands (I have been wanting these!)
Cinnamon Glazed Almonds from Nuts About You –which were seriously the best cinnamon glazed nuts the boy and I ever had. We LOVED them!
Dark Chocolate Godiva bar
Olay Daily Facial Cleansing Cloths
VitaMuffin, and
Omega 3 supplements!

Amazing! And now, dear readers, YOU have a chance to win a Venus Week gift bag as well!

The giveaway contest gift bag will include Always Infinity pads, total body exercise bands, Omega-3 Vitamins, Dark chocolate treat by Godiva, and Gourmet cinnamon almonds all packaged in an Envirosax reusable tote.

You can receive up to 4 entries. Here’s how to enter:

(1) Visit the Venus Week website and leave a comment here telling me what you plan to do to feel YOUR Venus Week all month

(2) Tell your friends about Venus Week! You will get an additional 2 entries if you do the following:
– If you have a blog, link back to this contest in your own entry
– If you don’t have a blog, get a friend to leave a comment about Venus Week and mention your name. Your friend will get 1 entry while you get 2 more!

(3) Add my new URL to your blogroll: http://dorishinyblog.com and leave a comment to let me know you did so

I will randomy select a winner on Tuesday, April 28. 

A big thank you to MS&L Digital, Procter & Gamble and Dr. Booth!

And don’t forget to enter my free doormat contest!

Who am I and what did I do with Dori? Plus, Starbucks VIA and Rethinking Thin Reviews

As I mentioned yesterday, if anyone told me last year I would be addicted to spinning and strength classes I would have laughed in their face. Well, there is something else to add on to the list of new things I am doing — tennis!

On Sunday at 12:00, I will be taking a tennis lesson (and going straight to Physique 57 after)! The reason is that every summer the boy goes to tennis camp with his friend for a few days. It is an intensive program that literally has you playing tennis ALL DAY EVERY DAY.

I’d like to do it.

Well, I don’t know if I would like to do it. I mean, I know I would want to, but would I HATE tennis as I used to think I did?

At camp when I was 8, 9, 10, etc we would have tennis once a week. It was on hot concrete and consisted mostly of standing on line. It was the hell of my week and I dreaded it, hated it, would rather do anything else OTHER than it. Since that, I developed a strong dislike of the sport.

Tennis Cartoon

In Florida when we visited my grandparents, my mom and brother would always play tennis together. My brother even went to a tennis day camp. My mom and brother would also go play at the park or the local college. I would never join, insisting I hated it, based on my camp memories.

But when the boy told me he goes to tennis camp, I wanted to go, too! And maybe I don’t hate tennis — after all, look what I am basing my opinion on. Granted, I am not at all athletic. Never have been. Although I like to think I play a good game of running bases. I’m good at faking out 7 year olds.

I don’t want to sign up for tennis camp and find out while I am stuck there for days playing tennis that I actually do in fact HATE tennis. So that is why I am taking a lesson on Sunday. This way, I can see how it goes and make an informed decision on tennis camp.

Tennis

Some of you are very curious as to what the boy looks like. Since he is secretive and also a yellow blob, I decided to design a Muppet version of him.

Muppet Boyfriend

This is the boy!  He wears a lab coat because he is a doctor. He wears glasses and has a Jewfro. And the thing is — this really looks like him! I am considering ordering one…

Starbucks VIA Review
I received two free samples of Starbucks VIA Instant Coffee. I read Tina’s review and couldn’t wait to try mine!

 I have had instant coffee before from brands such as Folgers and Chock Full O’Nuts. I always found them to be watered down and weak tasting. I like my coffee strong. I also didn’t like the requirement of dunking the instant coffee bag in the water for a given number of minutes. That is just annoying.

I usually make my coffee in a french press. And while I like how easy it is to use, it takes about 10 minutes to prepare which is a lot in the morning, and it is annoying to clean.

The Starbucks VIA coffee was sent to me in two types: Italian Roast and Colombian Roast. I tried the Italian one day and the Colombian the next. All you had to do was pour the coffee grinds in a mug and add hot water. Very easy and not at all time consuming. Already a plus.

Then I tasted the coffee. I have one word: wow. I would never have guessed it was instant. It was STRONG, just as strong as the coffee I make myself in the french press. And it was delicious. I enjoyed both flavors and want to use the free shipping offer they sent me with my samples to buy some more!

I went to the site and saw they make a VIA Ready Brew TUMBLER!

Starbucks VIA Ready Brew Tumbler

Very cool, but for now I will be ordering the packets. It is $10 for 12 packets. That is expensive for coffee you make at home, but I think these would be good to have for days I am in a  time crunch. I just tried to use my free shipping offer on one box — and there is a minimum order of two items. That just decreased my opinion of them. I will hold off on ordering; I don’t need to spend $20 on coffee today.

Exhale Core Fusion Body Sculpt DVD
The Body Sculpt DVD, and the Pilates Plus version as well, are divided into five 10 minute workouts, each targeting one area. This morning, I decided to do just the arms and abs sections of Body Sculpt since I didn’t have much time but was curious about the workout.

It was definitely similar to Transfigure, but not exactly the same. It incorporated the same ideas — lots of repetitions of small, targeted movements. I used 2 lb weights for the arms which is a LOT when you do these types of eksusizes. The abs section BURNED. I couldn’t hold the positions as long as I would have liked to, and had to follow the modified version at times. It was still an amazing ab workout and the time really goes FAST. I probably would have pushed myself harder if I realized how quickly it would end. Now I know for next time!  

I quickly looked at the butt moves as I was getting ready and they also seemed to be just like what we do at Transfigure. I’m not going to give a full review now since I didn’t do the entire DVD, but I do want to say that that is the best part — you can choose which workouts you want to do from the main menu. That means, if I have an extra 10 minutes here and there, I can quickly get a focused workout in! In the mornings I can do maybe two areas a day and mix it up. It is HARD — but it is also the type of workout I am currently obsessed with, and I do believe there will be results. I love it! So far, based on what I know, I recommend Core Fusion Body Sculpt.

The Pilates Plus DVD is divided into five sections as well, as I mentioned. That means I really have TEN 10 minute workouts to choose from every day! I plan to do this as much as I can until I get sick of it (as happened with the Shred). I am really excited for my upcoming visit to Exhale for a Core Fusion class!

I am very curious to do the Pilates DVD. Just like the tushie on the Body Sculpt DVD, who wouldn’t want these abs:

Core Fusion Pilates Plus

Rethinking Thin Review
As I mentioned, I recently read Rethinking Thin: The New Science of Weight Loss — and the Myths and Realities of Dieting by Gina Kolata.

Rethinking Thin

The book follows a group of obese dieters in a University of Pennsylvania study in 2004. One group was assigned to a low fat, low calorie diet and the other was assigned to Atkins, during its peak popularity. Every person was hoping to be in the Atkins group, because it meant they could eat as much as they wanted — and it was the fad of the time.

The fad of the time is a key element in this book. Kolata recounts major diet fads that began as early as the 1890s. Even then, there were low carb diets and those who swore by then in addition to a bunch of other diets that have re-emerged many times throughout the years, under new names and with a new twist. But the general ideas are the same.

Kolata also describes the changing image of beauty through the years, and you’d be intrigued to know that it was actually drawings of thin girls on the cover of a magazine (before photographs existed) that started the trend to be thinner and thinner.

Kolata wants to know, if these diets have been around for so long and people swear by them, why is America getting fatter and fatter? Why aren’t people losing weight?

Kolata delves deep into history, into the dieters in the Penn study, and the academic studies and scientific breakthroughs about obesity throughout the years. She talked to obese people who have tried to lose weight. Oftentimes, they were able to lose a bit but the weight always came back. Always. She wanted to know why.

What she discovered, based on the dieters she spoke to, the studies she researched, the doctors and counselors she spoke to was this: Everyone has a weight range of about 20 pounds or so. You can restrict yourself and get to the bottom of your range, or you can eat all you want but not break the top of your range. However, it is extremely difficult to deviate from your range. So people who are obese have trouble keeping off the pounds they lost because their bodies gravitate towards their range. Now, why their range lies at such a high number is another issue — likely related to brain pathways and the hormones that control appetite. Therefore, it is not the fault of these overweight people that they are overweight. And perhaps, according to Kolata’s work, society should stop placing blame on them, thinking they are gluttonous and can lose the weight if they truly wanted to. Because they can’t. Or, they can but it is virtually impossible to keep it off. It is out of their range.

During a study where they wanted a group of thin prisoners to gain weight, they found that to be almost impossible as well. It was out of their range.

There are many studies referenced and described throughout the book that prove this idea — one being a major one done throughout elementary schools. They tested whether a comprehensive program teaching students to be healthy, requiring them to be active, serving healthy food at school, etc would cause these students to be less overweight than those who don’t get the instruction and counseling.  This was a long and thorough study, and in the end, those at the schools who did not get the program were the same weight as those who did. The students from the schools with the program had a much better understanding of being healthy and took these lessons with them; they made healthier choices on their own because of it. But, they weren’t any thinner than students at the schools without the programs.

Which goes to show that something else is causing obesity in children. And that is where studies of the brain functions, of leptin, of hormone and enzyme pathways came in — to prove that these factors play a huge role in our weight.

There were quite a few studies what happened when obese mice were connected to non-obese mice and what happened when they played with the leptin in their brains — after she detailed the study of the scientist who DISCOVERED leptin. That was a major discovery in obesity research. I won’t get into that here because I don’t want to summarize the entire book — but, this book makes you realize that there is more to being thin than simply diet and exercise.

Maggie reviewed this book and touched upon another interesting study — what would happen if a group of non-overweight people were forced to eat a very restrictive diet and lose weight? As Maggie describes, “After and during the weight loss the men became obsessed with food. And not just food – anything to do with it. They would salivate while dreaming up recipes, some began collecting hot-pots, and they lost sexual drive. The obsession was so bad they they would binge and quickly return to their normal weights.”

This will resonate with those who have obsessive food issues of any kind. Food consumes the thoughts and people with eating disorders — and these me, who never thought twice about eating, adopted obsessive food personalities as a result of starving themselves.

I found Naturally Thin and all the studies mentioned fascinating. I learned a great deal about why we are the way we are — and reflected on how my own body has changed from high school to college to after graduation and why.

Click here for the New York Times review.

Mallory
A big congratulations to Mallories of A Bacon-Wrapped Life! Her Nut Butter Cups sold for $45 at Meghann’s Blogger Bake Sale, with all proceeds going to Leukemia and Lymphoma. I am so proud of Mallories and jealous of the lucky winner who gets to eat the yummies. Be on the lookout for a guest post from her soon!

House
***SPOILER ALERT FROM LAST NIGHT’S EPISODE****

 

 
 
 
 
 


 

 

 

 

I had read that one of the major characters would be committing suicide on House this season, but the only character I didn’t suspect it would be is the one who did it – Kutner!

Kutner and House

And today, we learned why he left the show — to work at the White House! How exciting! I like that he has some depth to him. Read interviews with Kal Penn and the show’s producers about his departure here.

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