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Books You Should Read

I love books. I love reading. There is never a time I am not either in the middle of a book or about to start a new one. I often forget my favorites and thought a list would be a great idea. I am sure I am accidentally leaving some off, but I can always add to this or make another list! And as I have an addiction to buying new books, feel free to leave me any recommendations you have!

I would really like to add a “Currently Reading” widget to the sidebar of my blog, but my brother informed me that my current layout is not widget friendly. Luckily I already had plans underway for a big redesign — and I think this widget covet will motivate me to finally do it!

Books

Here is a list of my all-time favorites that I highly suggest you read. Please bear with me as I read some of these a long time ago and don’t remember them as well as I would like to provide a good blurb. I definitely need to reread the ones I can’t remember clearly — but do remember LOVING.

Literary Fiction

The Time Traveler’s Wife Audrey Niffenegger – I was enthralled with the beauty of this when I first read it. When I heard the movie was slated to come out in late 2008, I reread it so I would have the story fresh in my mind. I loved it all over again. The movie was pushed back again, and I am sure I will read it a third time before it comes out. It is incredible and beautiful and amazing and I can’t recommend it enough.

She’s Come Undone Wally Lamb Quite possibly the best book of all time. I read this one so many times that the book completely fell apart. I was thrilled when I found a new copy for a few dollars I believe from the book people (people in NY who sell books on the street — they are at a few locations). I am dying to break into my new copy and read it again, as it has been many years since the last reading and I want to experience the amazingness again.

The Lovely BonesAlice Sebold – Chilling story of a family told from Heaven, from the point of view of a girl who was raped and murdered as she sees what happens to her family and friends. You won’t be able to put this down once you pick it up. This one will stick with you.

One Thousand White Women: The Journals of May Dodd Jim Fergus – “In 1854 at a peace conference at Fort Laramie, a prominent Northern Cheyenne chief requested of the U.S. Army authorities the gift of one thousand white women as brides for his young warriors.”  While this never happened, Jim Fergus wrote a novel as if it did. Not all 1,000, as the directive was never completed, but May Dodd is in the initial group of women who go. Fascinating story!

The DivideNicholas Evans – This was the first book I took from the free book shelf when I used to work at a book company.  I was new to the company and my friend at work told me that her mother had read this and said it was really good. I took it not knowing what to expect — and was seriously blown away. This is a book that will stick with you long after you finished. I really need to reread it. And a couple months ago I was lucky to find a signed copy at Duane Reade for $3.00!

The Girls Lori Lansens – You might think you have no idea what it is like to be a conjoined twin, yet Lori Lansens has done such incredible research that she seems to pinpoint it perfectly. Told from the point of view from both twins who are connected at the head and can only see each other through a mirror (“I have never looked into my sister’s eyes”) – the girls strive to write their story while they still can. An unforgettable book.

The Book Thief Markus Zusak Another one I will have to pick up again. All I really remember is loving it. It is told from the point of view of Death about a little girl during World War II.

*UPDATE: I forgot two more great ones – The History of Love and Middlesex. My Aunt Dale reminded me about History of Love, which is ridiculously beautiful. And Sara reminded me of Middlesex, which I read an entire weekend because I never left my bed!

Incredible Memoirs

Jesus Land: A MemoirJulia Scheeres – An incredible and heartbreaking story of a girl’s very tough childhood in rural Indiana and a Christian reform school in the Dominican Republic …

The Glass Castle: A MemoirJeanette Walls – Another fascinating story that follows journalist Jeanette Walls through her life with her eccentric, nomadic, at times abusive parents. The book begins, according to PW, “by describing looking out the window of her taxi, wondering if she’s “overdressed for the evening” and spotting her mother on the sidewalk, ‘rooting through a Dumpster.'” If that doesn’t make you want to pick it up, I don’t know what will!

Beautiful Boy: A Father’s Journey Through His Son’s Addiction David Sheff – I couldn’t put this one down — and even ran out immediately after to buy Tweak: Growing Up on Methamphetamines, the son’s memoir of the same time in his life (who also opened his book with a John Lennon quote). Sheff is a phenomenal writer who tries desperately to piece together what went wrong when his son became addicted to drugs. Nic was a bright, happy boy who was loved by everyone. This is his father’s account of his son’s addiction and what it did to their family. An incredible book that all parents should read.

Tender at The Bone: Growing Up at the TableRuth Reichl

Comfort Me with Apples: More Adventures at The TableRuth Reichl

Garlic and Sapphires: The Secret Life of a Critic in Disguise – Ruth Reichl

Yes, those three memoirs are by the same person, but they are just THAT good — especially if you love food the way I do. The boy’s mom recently gave them to me (how nice of her!) and I didn’t know what to expect — well, I literally devoured them (no other word would suffice!).  I finished one and picked the next one right up. And then the next. The way Ruth Reichl (former NY Times restaurant critic, current editor of Gourmet) connects food and recipes with her experiences is nothing short of phenomenal — from her early memories of her mother giving everyone food poisining, to her experiences at a French boarding school in Canada, her college roommate finding out her true past, her divorce from one husband and courtship with another — it ALL revolves around food. And good food at that. Her experiences as a restaurant critic are eye opening and intriguing as well.

These books are hilarious and incredibly well written and I really wish there was more!  I never wanted them to end. I can’t recommend these books enough!

Until I get the widget in place, I will manually write what I am currently reading.

Currently Reading: I Know This Much Is True by Wally Lamb, the same author as She’s Come Undone. I have had this book for a long time but at a page count of about 900 has prevented me from picking it up as quickly as I should have. I have heard wonderful things about it and the 1,086 Five Star reviews on Amazon have got to count for something! I am about 100 pages in now and very excited to read more!

Elliot Bay, my favorite bookstore in the world where I can spend hours upon hours reading reviews and descriptions and coming away with new reads is a great source of recommendations.

Even though I am usually enthralled in my books, I am also always thinking of which book I will read next. (I have a room full of books from working at the book company, where I was a promotional email copywriter).  My mom and I were recently at Barnes & Noble and there were 2 books I  really wanted. My mom said she would buy them for me if I left one with her to read right away, and then we could switch. When she read hers and loved it so much that I seriously cannot wait to get my hands on it! I will get it from her on Sunday — but won’t be able to start until I finish my current book.

Therefore, Next On My Reading List might have to be a widget as well! Although that one can and does change constantly. But this one I am sure about — next on my reading list is Firefly Lane.

The Bad: Knee Pain. The Good: Henry’s Blend

On Sunday I tried running outside for the second time. I wasn’t feeling so great as it was day 4 of my 5 day medical test, but I really wanted to do it. It was a beautiful day and lots of people were outside. I went to Transfigure but I didn’t get any cardio in and I hate being inside a gym on a gorgeous day.

Mistake – Eating chips as my mid-day snack.

The run started out pretty good. I was going very slow, but I was going. But then I got very thirsty. I could taste the salt from the chips. I am not even a salt lover. But I had seen that Dirty makes Sweet Potato Chips now, and I bought a bag earlier in the week. I was eager to try them, and I was hungry, and they are quick and easy –  which led to the decision to eat them. While I am a Popchip devotee, I must say that I enjoy the fact that Dirty makes two flavors that I hope Popchips will make one day – Honey Mustard and Sweet Potato.

So during my run I was plagued with thirst and had to stop at every water fountain I ran by. Keep in mind it was 90 degrees out.

I had to walk a couple times, which is no big deal. I know that is part of beginning to run. But I think running might be particularly difficult for me for some reason. I wore my HRM and when I looked, towards the end of my run, it was at 193. I wasn’t running fast at ALL — I was  going very slowly. I know I need to practice and get better, but that leads me to my next problem.

Pains!

I have had knee problems for years. When they started, it would be an intense, sharp pain on the outside of my left knee when I walked down stairs or downhill. It got to the point where I couldn’t go on stairs at all, and the people behind me trying to get down into the subway were probably very annoyed. I had gone to an orthopedist and he did an x-ray and it was normal. He diagnosed me with patella femoral syndrome and explained that my legs were very weak and couldn’t support my body, which in turn put all the pressure on my knees. He sent me off to Physical Therapy to get stronger.

Knee pain

The pains went away on their own but every now and then would return. It primarily happened in my left knee, but my right knee began having the same symptoms as well. Last year the pain became particularly bad. It reached the point where sitting hurt because my knees were bent. I went to another orthopedist.

He gave me the same diagnosis and sent me, once again, to Physical Therapy.

The problem is, the pain isn’t constant and physical therapists have a hard time focusing on what to do when they can’t recreate the pain. So that didn’t last long. I figured I would just deal with it; sometimes I get pains in my knee. The pains go away.

And then I decided to get into running.

For my first few treadmill runs, I was fine. Then one day I did a 45 minute run and during the last 15 minutes I felt the old pain come back. I should have stopped running, but I didn’t. I won’t make that mistake again, but it happened. My knee hurt for a couple days after that and I decided to order the knee sleeves that Caitlin uses. I figured they would hold my patella in place and hopefully my knees wouldn’t bother me too much during and after eksusize.

I have been using them pretty religiously since I got them. I don’t use the one on the right as much, only for running, while I use the left for pretty much everything, including my Transfigure/Core Fusion/Physique 57 classes. I make a point not to squat or lunge far during those classes as those moves also bring on the pain.

On Sunday, midway during my run, I began to experience the same (NOT knee) pain as during my last run. It is on the outside of my upper thigh, right below my hip. It only happens on the right side, but it happened all 3 times I tried to run (the first time, which I don’t really count, was cut short right away specifically because of this pain). The pain is bad, and it hurts to go up stairs and to walk while I am experiencing it. Once that pain gets bad enough, I can’t run at all.

I stretched before my run to try and avoid the pain, but it didn’t help.

Additionally, towards the end of my run (which ended up being 40 minutes including the walking) my left knee pain began. The same old. The outside of my knee. Hurts to bend it.  Once I felt that pain I had no choice but to immediately stop running. 

The rest of the night was difficult for me since we walked to dinner and I was in so much pain. The knee pain subsided pretty quickly, but the upper/outer thigh pain did not.  I told the boy I that running is not for me, and I would not be trying that anymore.

Quit running

Of course, once I saw everyone outside by the water during my lunchtime walk yesterday, I texted the boy and reneged. I love warm weather, and I need to try again.

But it gets worse. I have started experiencing knee pain in spin class. Not the same pain. This pain is not on the outside of my knee, but it is only on my left knee, which is the bad one. This spinning pain is on the front/inside, right next to the kneecap. It is extremely painful during spin, particularly during the sitting portions. The pulling up movement hurts it the most.

It started a little while ago, but has continued. I wear my knee sleeve to spin (despite the sweaty, skin-pinching discomfort) and it doesn’t help. Last night I went to my first 60 minute spin class. The pain didn’t start until the last 20 minutes or so, but once it began it was bad. I had a hard time walking out of the gym, I could barely bend my leg.

And now I am worried. If I can’t run that would suck but since I never ran in the first place it’s not such a big deal. But you all know how addicted to spin I am, how much I love it, how much I crave it. I know a break is in order, but *waaaahhh* I don’t want one!

After last night’s spin experience and Sunday’s running, I decided it is time to once again visit an orthopedist. I need to know that there is no major damage. I need an x-ray. I need to hear that I can spin again. So tomorrow afternoon I am trying a new doctor.

I know that the outside pain is patella femoral, but is that also the cause of the inside pain? Or is it something different? I need to know.

Knees suck. They carry the weight of the world — okay, just the weight of our bodies, but still — that is a lot of pressure for such weak joints! And yes, I know I use my knees a lot. I spin 3 – 4 times a week. I do the elliptical about 2 times a week. Sometimes I try to run. I walk as much as possible. Sometimes I try to do squats and lunges.

Knee pain

But my initial knee pain started BEFORE I did any of those things. Of course by putting so much strain on my knees I am surely making it worse, but I already had knee issues to begin with. I am curious to hear what the doctor says tomorrow!

In other news, my doormat arrived, so quickly! I will take a picture with it later or tomorrow to post. I love it! And thanks to the A Woman’s Infinite Confidence event, I got some amazing chocolate that I will discuss later this week or early next week. I promise it is GOOD. Hint: A combination of crispy and creamy from a brand you are familiar with that is only 1 Weight Watchers point! AND tonight Missy and I are trying a new workout!  I am VERY nervous. I am wearing my workout clothes to work and I am proud to announce that none of my clothes are on backwards. I am very comfortable. I am excited to provide a full report of the workout. Hopefully I have time this week.

And lastly, look what I got!

Henry's Blend

SEATTLE’S BEST HENRY’S BLEND! My adorable little brother lives in the Seattles and his middle name is Henry (which explains Henry Day) and I call him that often, as well as some variations, including but not limited to Henries, Hen, Hens and Henny.

Needless to say, I was thrilled to have gotten a sample of this from an event the boy went to.

From the Seattle’s Best website, here is the story of Henry’s Blend:

Henry the cat
The day we started roasting our first espresso blend in the ’70s, a furry visitor trotted up to our doorstep, sniffing the air. There was definitely something special about this friendly orange tabby that showed up every time the beans hit the roaster. We started calling him Henry, after another Henry with a nose for great coffee. Henry the cat eventually became our official company mascot, dropping by every day to check on the roasts, get some attention and take advantage of his milk-tasting benefits. And when our first roast was ready for a name, the obvious and only choice was Henry’s Blend®-still a popular blend today.

Henry is Seattle mascot!!!!

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